Yesterday, I celebrated a professional milestone. It was important for me to reach this moment because it puts life into perspective. For years I’ve watched hard working women succeed before me to be named to a list of executives that shape the industry I work in. The list has at times over the years been political, and I never really had any political clout. Sure I’ve met and worked with celebrities but I’m not a “star” maker. I toil away behind the scenes making money for everyone. I also do more industry volunteer work and am on more diverse boards than probably anyone else, promoting the interests on both the legal and commercial side of these “stars” and their companies. 2019 was my year of reckoning. I was appointed to prestigious industry groups at top levels a professional goal I never thought I’d achieve. I love it all, the hard work, the travel, the people, and yet the universe had other plans for me. On top of all of this the universe literally threw me a giant curveball . I let it hit me smack in the face. Well I had no choice - and it hit me in the chest. It took me down a notch, humanized me, and makes me recognize how much my family and friends are truly more important. The shortness of breath I have actually made me take a breath. It’s also made me more determined than ever that it will not take me out. I will control my own destiny and not let this damn disease take over. To all the friends and family that celebrated with me yesterday whether in person or through digital means (many of whom do not know I have cancer) - thank you - I truly appreciate that and you. It was joyous, surreal and a once in a lifetime moment...my mom had chemo yesterday and my first treatment is 6 days.
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